Trigger warning: Those with sensitive gag reflexes in regards to relationships should probably skip this.
Now, I normally don't post much about my Him to respect his privacy, but this one is too good not to share.
He was downtown when I got a call for the hell of it. He never just calls for the hell of it. Hey, I spent two dollars on this tile you're going to love. I thought of you and I just know you'll think it's bad ass. Okay cool, babe. See you when you get home. Weird.
The tile above is what he unwrapped later, and the explanation was the best part of the whole thing. He made sure to point out that the skeleton was worried about her weight for no reason because... she was skeleton, right? And no matter what, she would be beautiful to whoever loved her so she just may as well get off the goddamn scale and be who she is because she is more than what the scale says. Something along those lines. He repeated it a few extra times to make sure I got the message and I scrunched my face up while smiling because he was just so fucking precious. He was trying to communicate to me that he was all about self-love and body acceptance too. Goddamnit, how did I get so lucky?
I think it is SO spectacular that there are men out there that are body positive as well. Men who don't hold women to the impossible standard and value their brains and love as much if not more. Men who break out of their learned role all by themselves. I was SO worried when I was younger that they didn't exist and guess what? I found a sexy one that loves me the most, and I'll probably keep him forever. Do you have a boy that loves you for you too? If not, do you have a mental image of someone you would like to meet?
Oooooh! Lets talk about boys! *giggle giggle*.
Just kidding about the giggling part:)